precautions and instructions during a breakup

when a girl has been or iz goin thru a heart break you should1.never let her feel as if she is alone,.........if u really dont want her 2 feel bad2.you try 2 give her sometime if u can3.dont try 2 show that ur happy that ull rnt 2gether....even if u are!!!!!!!4.dont make her get hopes again..........if u dont intend 2 b wid her5.tell her that uv alwayz loved her...dont make her feel she was loving a tree6.share ur problems wid her,.......coz she loves u n understands u7.help her 4get u,.........if u dont love her.........8.apologise....even if she doesnt want it9.never NEVER PRETEND OR ACT AS IF NOTHING HAS HAPPEND,.it shows how ignorant u are...........makes her feel even more unworthy.......10.dont try 2 hide nethn...she knows u in and out..........even if she act as if she doesnt understand some things n acts oversmart............she does know few things,watever u want her 2 understand ...........11.she feels unworthy,......n unfortunate most f d time.........so try 2 not b hard on her if u want 2 talk 2 her........12.b gradual when u want 2 cut off things wid her,.........13.dont b saad,....she doesnt like it...........14.dayz are incomplete whithout thoughts abt u,.........not one moment goes without a tear shed when those thoughts come..........plz b a bit considerate..........wid her..........

every thing i do reminds me of him......every breath i take reminds me of life without air........every heat beat makes me realise the emptiness in my life........without ur presence...........
eventhough iv thrown or rather claimes to throw u out f my life..........i just cant find that part of me...that was fixed to urs.................
as unfortunate as it sounds....its even more depressing than it might sound...................
living a life for the sake of others is not living at all.............
living life for those who gave u life is a duty.....
living life bcoz f all the unexplainable reasons is a responsibility..............
living without u..........is not living at al...........
lovig life is having some1 around to love you back..............

life has many ways to teach you a lesson.........some lessons make you learn a lot..................
it helps u 2 not make any mistakes in future.............itz the law of karma.......that u get back everything that u hv done..............
but.........what lesson iv been given doesnt allow me to go ahead........
life has become clearer....but stagnant,...............
as stagnant as a small dirty pool of the rains............which can only cleared........but not cleaned............
itz so surprising na..tht sometimes u try soo hard to reach certain things,............only to realise that they never existed.............
tht they are as abstract as any blind painters creation............
as unreal as our dreams...........
as unachievable as the stars in the sky...........
still it hurts to see those dreams shattering..............

life..........

sometimes i wonder why does it happen tht when we run bhind something it alwayz runs faster.....n when we ry n find happiness in somthing else....the previous thing returns bck.........like nothin has ever happened......
does the world think m a fool to take back every thing that has rejected me...tht has given me soo much pain.......
life is nothin but a blank page.....we keep writing..........all of us make mistakes.........
most of us realise it.......n either erase them or cancel them........but we do correct them.....or try to..........
itz even sadder for the ones who dont realise the mistakes.....coz they never know what theyre doin in life...coz they r under the illusion that the r leadin a perfect life...........
lookin bk doesnt really matter......but actually lookin bk once in a while atleast makes one realise tht uv must hv made some ot the otherblunder....which may not b affecting them...but correctin them my help boost ur self esteem.........
love happens many times.....but there is just one person whom u can never stop loving.......
i know this is crap but i just felt like writing.....so wrote...........
just wanted to tell the world tht everyone has loads of tragedies written 4 them.........just that they shd know tht every tragedy has an end................and every happy time has a beginning........
there may be commas to make pauses in ur life....but...keep writing.................keep exploring.........keep smiling.............

the mystries of love

do we ever think and fall in love............does the moon ever worry about sunlight...do the heart nad mind ever listen to each other...................
love is one of the beauties of life.....accepted...........but it is one of the most painful experiences too...........
no one can stop oneself rfom loving......but one should understand that it is purly a very beautiful thing to happen in one's life..........



how i wish for that smile.......yes that smile.yes yes ur smile...........that dimpled smile.........
those eyes..those loving eyes.............
how i wish for those days.......how i wish......that you wer here....how i wish u nevr went...leavin me all empty and alone......how i wish u relly meant wat u said..............how i wish........that love existed....that WE existed....................
that i would never dream.that i would never believe......that i would never hope.........
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why ru so cruel god.......why ru so heartless............that in one moment..........you make us go through these trials.............
that u make us hate love,...............
that u make us so brittle..............that u mke us so miserable.................
why did u make such deadly feeling.........such a poison....that can give as well as take ur life...............



newayz.......to all those unfortunate pple who hav managed 2 b alive till here(readin this post)..........i know m a pathetic writer.................but i just felt like bloggin.........but thankx a lot 4 readin though